Styling you to attract love and success
MEET THE
FOUNDER
Hi there!
My name is Stephanie Lucas and I did not wake up like this! I did however, wake up recently with a powerful thought that has been driving me ever since. “You need to help people find love through fashion. There are too many people out there who are single and alone.”
Call it a voice from within or a voice from somewhere else, I’m really not sure but I realized this is how I join two things that I’m passionate about and that is fashion and helping others reach their goals. This was an ecstatic feeling for me after going to Fashion School and helping people dress for over 15 years now.
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Fashion has a bad rep with some people. Some people find it superficial and others find it completely daunting. I’m here to help diffuse both of those ideas and educate you on fashion while we work together to build the life you want. We will create mass attraction through all aspects of your life. Yes, the focus is finding love and attracting the ideal match for you but you will be amazed to see what doors being confident in your appearance will open. We accomplish all this through dressing the way you want the world to see you.
I can’t wait to help you show people how beautiful you are in the inside by first showing off the outside!
When you start dressing to create an image that represents you and how you want to be seen in the world the results are astounding. Others will start to look at you differently, you will command more respect when you walk into a room, exude confidence, draw others towards you effortlessly, and doors will open for you because of this new you.
How can I promise this? Well, I’ve implemented it into my own life. Fashion truly saved my life. In 2010, I was divorced, depressed completely lost and had recently filed for bankruptcy with a young son to raise all alone. I soon found myself at a new job that was completely out of my realm. I was working for a major IT company and didn’t know how I was going to make it. I knew ZERO about IT. Each morning I would wake up and not only dress the way I wanted to feel but also how I wanted to be seen by others. It made me feel good when I could look in the mirror and know that I was putting my best foot forward. I became the #1 Rep my first quarter there and the awards just seem to keep coming. It felt like a miracle. I was promoted in record breaking time and moved from making under $40k a year to over six figures. I know that without dressing for success and ambition, I would have never gotten to my dreams so quickly.
Throughout the last 15 years, I have helped countless people shop, clear out their closets and attract a better life. Some of my success stories include helping people get leadership jobs, go from single to married happily with kids and my favorite story to tell- a bachelor going to a high school reunion where his ex-girlfriend threw herself at him because he was dressed so well! (should I mention the fact that she was there with her fiancé??")
One of the greatest things about changing your wardrobe is that the results are instant. Clients look in the mirror and tell me “I’ve never liked what I’ve seen looking back at me until now”
That is the best feeling ever. I can’t think of any business coaching, personal trainers or amount of mentoring that have the ability to create instantaneous effects!
So let’s do this already! Consider yourself to have a new bestie. A bestie in fashion <3
My
Story
I want to be real with you. I am nothing special. I wasn’t born into a family with an excess of financial means. We grew up quite poor actually. I remember at a young age my parents worried about money constantly. I wasn’t given all the toys I wanted or barbies or expensive doll clothes. What I was given was a stack of fabric leftovers to play with and use my imagination to create clothes for my beloved dolls. I would spend hours laboring over the perfect clothes for them. Later in life I attended fashion school which I loved tremendously. I learned the basics that really I already knew but they put it in a shiny wrapper with solid explanations and principles behind it. I dreamt of having my own wedding boutique and dressing women for one of the most important days of their lives. This was put to a halt due to a divorce from a man I would have given the world to. We were forced into bankruptcy and lost everything. The cars, the homes, and furniture was sold at a flash garage sale in order to keep the lights and a/c on quite literally. I had to move in with my parents at the age of 30. This was truly humbling.
In order to give my sweet son the best life he deserved, I decided to start a new career in IT. I didn’t know anything about IT. I barely knew how to copy and paste! Needless to say, it was quite the nightmare for me. I cried almost every day at lunch in my car. I didn’t know how I was going to make it through. My ex was fighting me for custody of my son and had already started a new family right away.
I was depressed. Like super, super depressed. I could barely get out of bed on most days. I woke up sad, hating my life, hating my world, feeling bitter that God had dealt me such a harsh hand of cards... But I knew I had to put on a strong face for my sweet little boy. I knew that I wanted to be able to provide for him and give him a beautiful home, in a safe neighborhood with a healthy, mentally present mother.
So, I would sit in bed in my tiny little room and stare at my closet until I got inspiration. My closet was color coordinated so I could determine what I needed to “feel” for the day. What image did I want to exude to others? You see, I learned a long time ago that colors evoke certain feelings, and emotions. They speak volumes without saying a word and create subconscious bias to the world around you.
This is how I rallied. Every single day. I didn’t know how to fake it but my clothes supported me emotionally. They helped me feel how I wanted to feel. If I wanted to feel happy then I’d wear yellow. If I wanted to feel strong and powerful, I’d wear red. If I wanted to just fit in it was going to be muted colors and beige. If I wanted to be noticed I’d wear purple.
And it worked.
My fashion sense was noticed in this office located in small-town USA. While others were rolling out of bed and throwing whatever they could find on, I was showing up with respect towards others because I took the time to invest in myself and show that I also respected them.
The clothes buoyed me up when I felt like I was drowning in a brand new environment.
This was the key I realized as I helped others who reached out to me to improve their lives. My friend “JP” who was having a hard time meeting women, Melissa who was looking to get promoted, “KH” who I told him all he needed to do was iron his shirt to gain respect. Looking into the sea of cubicles that were formerly plagued with sweats, jeans and flannels was suddenly looking a whole lot more beautiful. Women in heels, curling their hair, putting on a little lipgloss, while the men busted out their ties and well pressed long-sleeve button ups.
I attribute fashion to my record breaking success at this office. It was unheard of that a newbie- much less someone from outside of the industry go from a cube job to the field. I landed my dream job in just over 2 years. I couldn’t believe it. I went from being bankrupt to making over six figures. I know now just how much fashion is to thank for that success.